OK, just have to rant a bit here as this is still frustrating to me:
Why are Asian girls so difficult? I mean, seriously, c'mon. I don't know if it's only my experience with the non-American Asian girls I run across but every single time I talk to one Direct (usually, "You're cute. What's your name?") they shut down. Completely. I can read it in their face and I know the interaction is done before they even say anything.
Case in point: Was eating lunch at Lucy's Lunch Box here in Santa Monica, chilling outside with some co-workers when this cute-as-a-button Korean girl walks by. Instant gut reaction on my part, I know I have to talk to her. I wait a second, go back inside and open her Direct. Her face registers something along the lines of disbelief or something (I can't quantify it really, but it's not a good thing) and the interaction pretty much dies after that.
The frustrating part is that I'm pretty sure it's not me, since I get generally positive results with American-born Asian girls (as well as other ethnicities) when I go Direct on them. I'm wondering if something about my Body Language changes or my energy. I think I need to bring in a professional eye to check what's happening with my body language communications with non-American Asian girls because this is becoming frustrating really quickly.
The interim solution, for me, is to keep things Indirect with any Asian chick I run across. I don't like doing that all the time, though, since there are some chicks where it just feels right to go Direct.
If only I didn't find Asian girls so Attractive this would make my life TONS easier. :-\
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I hear you. I am Caucasian and when ever I approach Asian women I'll get blown out.
Need to display more DHV
Very high on the shields.
A challenge but you got to love it. Maybe a neg across the bow would shakes things up?
Or immediately move on in front of them and start with jealousy.
Your right about body language. You'll have to own the venue with your entourage to get noticed.
Strong Frame !!!
But isnt it true with most women!!
The better your State the better the chances.
Screw it man. Go for other ethnicities. Asian chicks are mostly so boring to talk to. Even after picking them up they're not stimulating enough to have around - go for someone with personality.
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