OK, just have to rant a bit here as this is still frustrating to me:
Why are Asian girls so difficult? I mean, seriously, c'mon. I don't know if it's only my experience with the non-American Asian girls I run across but every single time I talk to one Direct (usually, "You're cute. What's your name?") they shut down. Completely. I can read it in their face and I know the interaction is done before they even say anything.
Case in point: Was eating lunch at Lucy's Lunch Box here in Santa Monica, chilling outside with some co-workers when this cute-as-a-button Korean girl walks by. Instant gut reaction on my part, I know I have to talk to her. I wait a second, go back inside and open her Direct. Her face registers something along the lines of disbelief or something (I can't quantify it really, but it's not a good thing) and the interaction pretty much dies after that.
The frustrating part is that I'm pretty sure it's not me, since I get generally positive results with American-born Asian girls (as well as other ethnicities) when I go Direct on them. I'm wondering if something about my Body Language changes or my energy. I think I need to bring in a professional eye to check what's happening with my body language communications with non-American Asian girls because this is becoming frustrating really quickly.
The interim solution, for me, is to keep things Indirect with any Asian chick I run across. I don't like doing that all the time, though, since there are some chicks where it just feels right to go Direct.
If only I didn't find Asian girls so Attractive this would make my life TONS easier. :-\
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Tuesday, August 21, 2007
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