"No?" or "Not Yet?"

I've recently been forcing interactions less and less and letting the Universe guide me where I need to be. It can be exhilirating most times, where every interaction becomes an adventure. Other times, though, it can be an exercise in patience.

I've been flirting with this one girl at work on and off for the past several months. I know the whole, "Don't sh!t where you eat" mantra quite well (as I almost got burned one time before at my current gig) so I'm very careful how and when I flirt with this current chick. I get the vibe that she's into me BUT things always come up that make us getting together (and ultimately, "getting together") a huge challenge right now.

If it's not one thing it's the other: her dog swallowed some push pins; I get sick the week I have free time; she has to fly up North to see her folks; I have to take care of some last-minute financial shit; SHE gets sick the day before; the list goes on and on. It's not like these are flakey behaviour kinds of things, I can accept that. It's more like the Universe is telling me "No" with this chick.

Or is it "Not Yet?"

I'm still not sure, since we seem to vibe really well. The frosted side of me is inclined to believe "Not Yet" because every time I shelf this as a learning experience it re-opens anew. Frustrating does not even BEGIN to describe how this feels.

All I can do, really, is keep looking elsewhere lest this situation drives me bananas.