So I had another day2 tonight that went a LOT better than last night's. I think it's due to the fact that she's a much more compatible personality type to mine's (she's a Capricorn, I'm a Virgo, if you care). In any case, here's the breakdown:
After receiving my new couch in my pad (which is pimp, by the way, got it from www.viesso.com) she arrived. I had her park in my garage (which is an arrangement I had with my brother/roommate) and took her upstairs because I had to "finish some email stuff". She's just as cute as I remember her, so I'm diggin' it. She gave me a hug when she arrived which was the basic ass-out hug you give to sort-of friends and relatives you don't really care for. Gave her the grand tour of the apartment (which is still being put together, hence the moniker The Death Star), which ended with my bedroom. After a couple of minutes we head out to the Starbucks.
On the walk down she's very talkative, which makes my job TONS easier. I still lead the conversation, and lead her into vulnerability by sharing stories about my life. I don't run any Rapport routines, I just keep sharing and leading and kino'ing the sh!t out of her.
We get to the Starbucks and post up outside for more than an hour (possible tactical mistake, since I told her from the get-go that I only had an hour in my schedule). She sits first, which allows me to maneuver my chair to a side-by-side position, and we vibe. She is, by far, the coolest, most put-together chick I've ever met. She's about the same age as me (29) and she's got a plan and a dream for her life, which turn me the fvck on. At one point I straight-up SOI her: "I like you. You're really cool and you've got a dream and goals. I dig that."
As it stands she's very business-goal oriented and has to help take care of her mother at home, so I have to keep those things in mind for future interactions (read: RAPID kinoescalation on day3 because of time constraints). On the walk back I get a little hand-holding but not much more. High five test was a little flat, as well, but the vibe was there so I'm going to give this another go-round to see if she's just a little shy on the first date. Now I just have to get things more private and kinoescalate like there's no tomorrow.
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