So I had a day2 tonight with a co-worker (Yes, I know the whole "Don't shit where you eat", but still...). In short: no sexual spark was there, but I still got good experience from it. Random thoughts posted for posterity:
-Doing the whole "show her the bedroom but leave soon after" thing worked OK this time.
-I set up the seating in Starbucks to be side-by-side, but she changed it to face-to-face. Tried to mitigate it by angling my seat off to the side and eventually getting her to pull up closer, at least. Still, not ideal.
-Conversation turned to sex about halfway in (30 min), which was cool to be frank with a chick about her sexual history. I'll have to refine this a bit, I think, to where I lead into this with a story or two to make it more comfortable.
-Misstep when she asked if I was seeing anyone. My answer was something like, "Well, now that would be telling.", after which I tried to backtrack to, "No, I don't have a girlfriend right now". Mental note: prepare an answer for this question that's specifically vague. I'm open to suggestions.
-Kinoescalation on the walk to/from was difficult for some reason. Weather was cold so she was cross-armed the whole time which made it hard to read if she was comfortable with the kino or not. We bumped our bodies into each other a lot, but still hard to read.
-I left my garage door opener in my apartment, so I had her come up again so I could get it. The kino wasn't there and I couldn't hand-check her the whole night so I wasn't sure where I was in that regard.
-Asked for a hug, got the limp side-hug, busted on her and made her give me a full body hug. The spark just wasn't there, not even in me. Hrrmm, oh well. :-\
I have another day2 tomorrow with a chick I met in Matrixfillmore in SF (she lives sort of close-by in Alhambra), so basically second verse same as the first. Hopefully the kino will flow better with this one, but we'll see if I still have that gut-level attraction for her.
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